It has been one year since I first started this blog and my journey to becoming a seduction artist. Since that time I have grown and learned a great deal. I have overcome many limiting beliefs which had prevented me from meeting and attracting beautiful women. I have had some great successes. I have also had some spectacular failures. Yet I still endure, improving myself one step and one day at a time. Lets take a look at some of the highlights from the past year:
- My first blog post that ignited the fire within. It took a lot of balls for me to write this post because 1) I was exposing myself to the public eye and 2) I told the truth about myself and that scared the shit out of me. Sometimes we hide the truth from ourselves and never realize that we need to change. We go through life living in a false reality thinking that we are fine and everything else is what’s fucked up. If you want great things it must first come from within.
- In the fall of 2006 I began approaching more women. Most of the time I would crash and burn or simply eject from the set too early. I did have a few good victories though. This one night was where I really began developing my seductive dance technique and my infamous Eskimo Kiss Close. Also, in this poetic field report I have another night which involves my seductive dancing and was a major boost to my confidence.
- I came to the realization that when I go out I drink too much and this was one of the major factors that was killing my game. From this point on I began drinking much less and enjoying the company of people more. When you are socializing and talking to people then you aren’t drinking.
- I lost my virginity after 27 years one night in November 2006. I have mixed feelings about that night but I think it was necessary just to get that first sexual experience out of the way.
- In December ‘06 I made a mission to do 100 cold approaches for the month. I called it the December Blitz and the purpose was to help get over my approach anxiety which was still plaguing me at the time. I only made it to 43 approaches by the end of the month but it was still a big accomplishment and had approached more women in that one month than I had in the previous year!
- In the first months of 2007 I began making a lot of rapid progress in not only opening women but creating attraction. My seductive dance skills further developed and helped me to kiss more girls in the last year than my entire life. I even had a few more intimate encounters here and here.
- There were also some adventurous nights which ended up becoming great DHV (demonstrations of higher value) stories.
- Recently, within the last several months, I’ve been really exploring what it is I want to do with my life and what is my passion. In the end the real attraction is leading a passionate life.
- There has been a lot of time put into learning the skills of seduction which you can read more about in the archives. There were even more approaches and social engagements that never even made it into this blog.
After reviewing the last year, it is now time to set my sites on some new goals and further progress my seduction skills. Here are some things I will be working on:
- Closing and Day 2s: There has been a pattern in many of my field reports over the last six months. Most of them show that I have been successful at creating attraction and rapport but have a very low closing rate. I am not able to develop these interactions beyond the first meeting. I will be working on getting more phone numbers after meeting women and then following up to get more day 2s.
- Seduction Community: Until now, I’ve been teaching myself the pick-up arts based on what I’ve read in books and on the internet then applying it in the field. One problem with this type of learning is that it is slow and difficult without being around other more experienced people. I’ll probably contact my local seduction lair within the next month and really become part of the community in hopes to not only learn from but help support other aspiring men.
- The Tango de la Muerte: One of my big attraction builders has been the way that I dance with women. I know that once I can get them on the floor and take control of their movement I can easily escalate to more physical intimacy. I’d really like to refine this skill and perhaps develop my own method of seduction based on dancing. Every great pick-up artist has their own style and niche, perhaps this will be mine.
- Living Passionately: I still do not have a clear picture of what my passion is but I do have it narrowed down to a few things. I will continue exploring this area of my life and focus on living the life I want to live into.
So there is my one year progress report. For those readers who have been with me since the beginning, I give you my many thanks for your support. I’ve received many encouraging comments and emails. For those people who are just joining the adventure, please don’t hesitate to leave your feedback or ask questions.
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Sincerely yours,
Matt Savage
