Comments on: The Older Male Virgin Bloggers

By: robert

robert — Tue, 07 Feb 2012 12:52:36 +0000

I’m getting close to 50 years old myself and i’m still a virgin, and i don’t care. I gave up along time ago and it was a smart move. Now i don’t have to deal with any bullshit.

By: SPL46

SPL46 — Sat, 21 Jan 2012 22:36:23 +0000

I am a 46 year old, unemployed, male virgin. It is inevitable that I will be a 50 year old virgin because, quite frankly, I’m pretty disgusting and extremely unattractive to ANY woman!!! My track record with women is that I kissed about 2 women in my life (poor girls; I really feel sorry for them!!! I’m certain they never got over it!!!) and about a handful of dates that, obviously, never resulted in a 2nd date!!!! I have not been on a date with a woman in about 5 years!!! (Thank god for that!!!!) I thank you for this site so I can vent and just express the truth about myself and my history and chances of ever having even a date in my future…..!!!!

By: Joe

Joe — Wed, 16 Nov 2011 07:51:40 +0000

To the guy who said sex with a condom is not sex: You should probably stay a virgin until you learn about safe sex practices.

By: Tim50

Tim50 — Fri, 14 Oct 2011 22:59:56 +0000

I’m also an involuntary, 50-year-old, heterosexual, male virgin. I’ve only been on a few dates in my life, and those women were very quick to tell me what a “great guy” I was (not a good sign) and how “comfortable” they felt with me (a worse sign). My attempts at seduction are usually met with chuckles (“But Tim, I don’t see you that way!”) or they change the subject immediately. I don’t want to go to a prostitute, but I’m at a loss at this point. I’m in good shape, I have a great sense of humor (so I’m told by all the women who laugh at my quips), and I actually listen to women.

Two things I don’t have – good looks and money. As cliche as that sounds, those things matter. If I were a beautiful woman, why would I want a broke troll as a mate? Sense of humor? Forget it. Women claim that’s number one on their list of desireable traits in men. But as Gilbert Gottfried once said, “Oh yeah, a sense of humor. I see beautiful women every day crawling over Tom Selleck to get to Buddy Hackett!” (A little dated, but you get the point.

I’m actually in the process of writing a book on being a 50-year-old virgin (anonymously, of course). I doubt I’ll get make any money off it, or even get it published, but it will at least allow me to do a self-examination about why I’ve been such a failure with women despite my best efforts.