Comments on: What Nice Guys Need to Know

By: Tim50

Tim50 — Sat, 19 Nov 2011 02:53:30 +0000

I can’t tell you how many women have told me what a “great guy” I am or how “comfortable” they feel with me on a date. That’s why I’m still a virgin at 50. A couple of years ago I went out with a woman who asked me on our second date if I was gay. I told her no and asked her what would make her think that. Her answer floored me – “You’re so easy to be with and you actually listen to what I’m saying.” After a few more (non-sexual) dates she dumped me and wound up going back to an abusive ex-boyfriend who nearly killed her one night a few months later.

I’m not saying that women want to be physically or mentally abused, but there’s something ingrained in them that doesn’t allow them to trust a guy who treats them well. It probably has to do with daddy issues. I remember giving a small gift to a girl I was dating on Valentine’s Day, and her response was that her ex-boyfriend never remembered that day or her birthday. She had dated and slept with him for two years. She went out with me for a year and never even so much allowed me to make out with her. Yes, I was a fool for letting it go on that long, but I was in love with her and was stupid enough to think her feelings would change.

By: Matt Savage

Matt Savage — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 14:50:10 +0000

Almost 40 Virgin,
I don’t think that MasterSargent (like many guys in the seduction community) are advocating treating women like shit and being a jerk. What he likely intended were that men STOP being supplicating needy men who let women walk all over them. When a guy puts a woman up on a pedestal, this is where the stereotypical “nice guy” behavior comes from that so many women find unattractive in a male. And I think this type of behavior can be discarded without having to revert to being an asshole.

By: almost 40 year old virgin

almost 40 year old virgin — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 09:52:45 +0000

Case in point peeps like Master Sarge above.

Just because they are able to treat females like shit and thus ultimately are shit themselves, doesn´t mean a “nice-guy” is just as fucked up but hides it because of being “weak”.

In my nice guy phase two decades ago I would´ve mumbled confusedly and even questioned myself. Nowadays it´s a clear “Fuck you Sarge!”.

I´m STILL nice and like to greet people with a nod and a smile or help old people with something. And usually I´m the ONLY FUCKING one doing it while 10 people have passed by in this retarded society of Master Sarges.

The false social proof of game and asshole mentality is as useless to me as the females who are attracted to it.

By: almost 40 year old virgin

almost 40 year old virgin — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 09:38:37 +0000

EVERYTHING about your conclusions is wrong!
Continue the nice guy routine towards the “ladies”. It screens out perfectly the modern feminist western sluts that would´ve made your life hell anyway. Just learn to see the writing on the wall and dump them 1st.

The OTHER side of the nice guy persona is the problem. Being nice towards OTHER GUYS!
This is the real problem.
Acquiescence to assholes, friends even, just because you play nice and don´t want any trouble, the easy way through life .
This is the ultimate downfall and reason for a fucked up life.

As that posters so precisely states:
Acquire currency, disregard females.