I’ve been seeing a lot of search query’s looking for pick up artist related reading lists and book references that were mentioned in The Game: Penetrating the Secret Society of Pickup Artists by Neil Strauss. I took the liberty to flip through my own copy of The Game and list all the book references to which Neil Strauss had read on his journey to becoming one of the world’s greatest pick up artists. Below you’ll see the references listed by title, author, and the page number it can be found in The Game.
- The Art of Love
by Ovid, page 38
- My Secret Garden
by Nancy Friday, page 57
- Introducing NLP
by Joseph O’Connor, page 74
- Madame Bovary
by Gustave Flaubert, page 93
- How To Pick Up Girls
by Eric Weber, pages 124, 430
- Frogs Into Princes
by John Grinder and Richard Bandler, page 124
- Think and Grow Rich
by Napoleon Hill, page 187
- Master Your Hidden Self: Guide to the Huna Way
by Serge King, page 271
- The Red Queen
by Matt Ridley, page 294
- The Selfish Gene
by Richard Dawkins, page 294
- Sperm Wars
by Robin Baker, page 294
- The Art of Seduction
by Robert Greene, page 309
- The 48 Laws of Power
by Robert Greene, page 309
- On Seeing the 100 Percent Perfect Girl One Beautiful April Morning by Haruki Murakami, page 365



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Think and Grow Rich was in there? Serious? Whoa thats so awesome. That just goes to show that personal development is just as important in learning about the rules of the dating game. You know i have a friend who is a PUA and has read and implemented the likes of books like The Game and David D. He told me that while they do teach you a lot of skills that help when attracting women, they really tend to focus on building self eestem aswell. I think thats really important to remember for both guys and girls getting into the dating game
Hot Alpha Female
I have never really done or thought about a pick-up artist, even tho I have seen “wannabe” pickup artist around before.
I am going to have to look into this!
Hot Alpha Female
Yea, who’d of thunk it! There are pick up artists who are actually trying to improve their lives as opposed to the simple goal of sleeping with a multitude of hot women….crazy! Or perhaps, we just realized that the most attractive quality of a man is how he lives his life;)
Single
Definitely check it out. Whether you agree or disagree with the concept of pick up artists, the book The Game is still a really entertaining story. I highly recommend it for both guys and girls.
How can someone disagree with the concept of a pick up artist? They exist, and they use principles of human behavior and apply it to sleeping with girls, which every guy wants to do.
Love the Robert Greene, bought them the same time I bought the Game from amazon but the book i currently really want is frogs into princes, but since its out of print now i cant afford it £50 uk. I have been planning on creating a list of all books and techniques routines with links to the details on the net. but not got up to doing it yet. they will all be common knowledge now. My sister was talking to my mum today about how one of her mates was talking about the dual massage she is 16 also the number game between 1-5 1-10….
I’d love to see some of the classics revived, like The Prince. Machiavelli was a total pimp. Question–do you think books like The Rules are the female equivalent of PUA literature?
John Smith,
Good point. I guess what I was trying to say was that not everyone thinks that seducing women with that knowledge of human behavior is ethical.
Dan,
I have read The Art of Seduction and it was certainly informative and interesting. Some parts I thought got a little boring though and I can’t say that the information was as useful to apply in real life as some of the other books. I haven’t read 48 Laws of Power yet but it’s on my ever growing reading list!
Honey,
I read The Prince in high school and it was one of my favorites. Not sure how useful it’d be for picking up women but definitely a must read for taking over the world…..hmmm….
I haven’t read The Rules so I don’t have much basis for comparison. From what I know, it seems like it focuses more on manipulating a relationship with a man rather than the attraction and seduction phases, which most of the PUA literature focuses on. I think that magazines like Cosmo are more of the women’s equivalent to our seduction information.
Dan,
i found a PDF version of frogs to princess awhile back on the internet… you might want to search around for it onlne
The two Greene books are amazing!
You can try your local library for Frogs Into Princes, which is where I was able to find it. The book is a little dated compared to some of Bandler and Grinder’s more recent NLP books. You can also find the PDF copy on Scribd here:
http://www.scribd.com/doc/50215/Frogs-Into-Princes
I have found an online version thanks, both robert green books are in that style, been reading the chapter’s blocks as there is alot to take in.
The Selfish Gene by Richard Dawkins was a phenomenal read actually, I didn’t know it was in there. Glad Neil read that one, it had a profound influence on my thinking after I read it, and continues to do so to this day.
I’m linking this post in a thread in my forum, all of these books are good to read, thanks for the useful post!
Be Well.
Ian Smith.
http://www.pualifestyle.com/forum
This might be suprising but I think I’ve only read one of those books.