“Listen to me, if you can become good with women, then you can become good at anything.” he says
The short bald 60 year old millionaire is as serious as can be. He stares at me with an ice cold glare. He’s trying to make a point. He knows I have potential and he’s spilling out his decades worth of seduction knowledge. This is my mentor. This is Mr. Black.
“So, I heard you got laid last Friday?” he says
“Umm yea I did.” I reply
“Was she a good fuck?” he asks
This is the way Mr. Black talks. No bullshit. Straight to the point. He knows how to push peoples buttons, he knows how to be abrasive and get away with it. There’s no tap dancing around his questions because he knows how to read you. He’s an observer, he knows when you’re lying, he knows when you’re insecure, he knows when you’re hiding something. This is all based on many many years of training in neuro linguistic programming.
“Uhhh, well, I don’t really have a whole lot of basis for comparison, but I’d say it was good.” I say
“Hahaha, you’re right, how the fuck would you know.” he says jokingly
“Listen, this stuff isn’t that hard to figure out. You’re making it more complicated than it needs to be. For instance, this guy Mystery on that show The Pick Up Artist that you like so much, it’s a bunch of bullshit. I’m not saying that his stuff doesn’t work but it works for a different reason than what you think.” he says
“Ok, I’m listening.” I say
“It’s more about how you feel about yourself than anything else. If you believe that you are a ladies man then the universe will bring women to you. If you believe that you are a person deserving of wealth and abundance than the universe will provide you with those opportunities. The converse is also true. If you believe that you don’t deserve women and that you don’t deserve money than the universe will see to it that you don’t. It is as fucking simple as that.” he says
I nod my head as I ponder what he has just said.
“This is big stuff you know? Seriously, you’re a good looking guy, there’s absolutely no reason that you shouldn’t be getting laid left and right. There’s absolutely no reason that you shouldn’t be a millionaire by now.” he says
We are standing at the bar. Our drinks are almost empty. Bartender Betty walks over and begins flirting with me. We talk for a few minutes and then she goes to get us two more beers.
“She likes you.” Mr. Black says
“Really?” I say, “I’ve flirted with her before but she has a boyfriend.”
“Oh fuck that shit. I’ve been watching her and out of everyone in the entire bar she has had her eyes on you the most and she’s been spending almost all of her time hanging out in this one little area. You think that’s coincidence? She wants to fuck your brains out.” he says
“Huh, no shit.” I reply
“Here you are messing around with your little nerdy girl that you’ve been sleeping with, while you got your dream girl behind the bar giving you the ‘fuck me eyes.’ I’ll tell you what, if you don’t fuck her by the end of the month, I will.” he declares
“Seriously?” I ask
“Yea, seriously. Don’t think I can’t do it because I will.” he says
“Just remember, you and only you can decide what will come into your life. If you believe that you can draw beautiful women into it then you will. The world is your oyster.” he says
“Ok then, give me a month.” I say
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Not to get philosophical or spiritual… but i’ve been into zen like practice taught by guys like Wayne Dyer for years now. And i can attest that if you visualize an outcome.. see it, feel it, and believe it to already have occured. It does! Its freaky the first tme, and you’ll probaby attriubute it to coincidence,but the 2nd time it happens it will change your life.
If you want a waterd down version read “the secret” if you want a book that will change your inner game in all aspects of life read Wayne Dyer’s “real magic”
Bobby,
Honestly, I never gave this kind of stuff much thought before. I always blew it off as hocus pocus. I’ve been getting more into the whole visualization thing lately and am starting to believe that it does have some merit.
I’ve actually watched “The Secret” dvd but haven’t read Wayne Dyer’s “Real Magic” yet, I’ll be sure to add that to me reading list.
Powerful stuff Matt, take his advice.
It’s always good to have an older, wiser, (and sometimes ruder, lol) mentor to give us a good kick in the ass so we snap back to reality. Cool stuff.
Hey Matt,
Cool post. How did you go about finding a pua mentor?
“It’s more about how you feel about yourself than anything else. … It is as fucking simple as that.”
I should tattoo that onto my forehead
I noticed a major change, simply a paradigm with women when I implemented the delusional belief that I’m the hottest guy on earth. It changes everything.
Great post
Bobby, I tried Dyer in the past and found it to be a little to airy fair for my tastes, but I think I’ll try it again.
All of the PUA tactics can work — in the right hands. But “in the right hands” basically means having your inner game down properly.
The tactics are meaningless if they don’t match your insides. But a man with his inner game in order can do without the tactics. It’s either inside out or outside in (fake it til you make it).
Peace
we need more Mr. Blacks in this world
Would love to see more Mr. Black quotes.
I meant, more posts about Mr. Black.
K - Well you’re in luck because I have some excellent Mr. Black stories in the queue, so stick around, you’ll be in for a treat:)
Man i love how you write your posts!!! awesome!!
This Mr Black guy, despite the fact that he is very abrupt sounds like a very intelligent guy. And i don’t just mean smart … but he really seems savvy in the way things work. The way things work with life and the way things work .. with …. ummmm … seducing chicks and stuff.
What he has to say about attracting girls and attracting money are very true. Because essentially you are using the law of attraction to get to the girls, so you can just change your focus and start doing that with money.
Like for this blog for instance. Great blog right? you pro have a lot of readers. You could totally make an e-book about … whatever and sell it to your readers. Or you could write for other websites and get paid for it. Or affiliate with someone. Possibilities are endless if you wake up and smell the opportunities around you =)
Hot Alpha Female
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Hot Alpha Female,
Mr. Black definitely knows his stuff and is really quite an interesting guy. I need to post more of my interactions with him because some of our conversations have been really enlightening and entertaining!
As far as monetizing this blog, that is something I have been considering but I want to do it in a way that isn’t too salesy. I don’t want tons of ridiculous banners and affiliate sales letters. I feel that the readers who visit my blog on a regular basis give me some sort of credibility and trust. One thing I definitely don’t want to do i s alienate my readers by trying to sell them on gimmicky products and ebooks. I’m working on a way of making money without having to sell anything…I know it doesn’t sound possible, but trust me I have a plan:)
Well anyhow i think its really great that you have a mentor and everything. If you want to call him that =) A lot of people have made their own products and built up a subscription lists. But yeh i totally know what you mean about the banners and afiliate products. But like you said, im sure you’ll figure something out =)
Hot Alpha Female
“You and only you can decide what will come into your life…” If you can do that with women, you can also do that with money!
Bull crap!
All you need is to have the appearance of said qualities, hence dhv’s and body language. Machiavelli say’s something interesting in his book the Prince: To be a Prince to one’s people, all one needs is to have the semblance of the qualities of a prince.
People will believe what they see. If you say you’re alpha but you’re body language shows no alphaness, then you are not congruent, as in you’re not showing a semblance of alphaness.
I mean inner game is fine and all, but people need to understand that a semblance is all the most important.
cheers
ok, not the most important but is sufficient. Inner game just allows you to maintain that semblance with less energy.
thoseguns,
You’re the second person in two days to mention Machiavelli’s The Prince! Kind of makes me want to read it again after so many years. I agree with you that you don’t necessarily need the inner game stuff in order to attract women, one could always use the appearance of an attractive person. However, I think that over the long term it is important to continue developing ones personality/ inner game in order to not only attract quality women but to eventually hold them in a meaningful relationship.
haha, really? It is a solid book. For the long run, it usually is best to internalize the right personality, ie. making you the best you can be. I believe as long as the change is not only for women but for yourself its fine.
man, you have some good stuff on your blog. I enjoy reading. (lol. well, that is since i started a few days ago.)
cheers to your development.
SO Matt… this was the last post of yours for awhile… and I was waiting for you to come back with some great story about abundnance… how did this work out for you?
I’m a firm believer in it.. although its like going to the gym… it works if you do it consistently but it is so easy to get side tracked
Bobby,
I’m actually glad you brought this up, I probably should do a post on this eventually as an update to my progress. I’m definitely not a millionaire yet, but since this post I’ve managed to negotiate an extra $10k per year by doing some marketing work for Mr. Black. This in addition to my full-time salary is significant improvement in my financial situation.
I’m also currently working on a business plan which I hope to present to some investors in the next 3-4 months.
Another thing I’d like to do eventually is make money from this blog, however, at this point there isn’t enough traffic to make any significant money so I’m mostly keeping it ad free for the time being.
What I’d really like to accomplish though, is something akin to Tim Ferris’ lifestyle of the new rich, where it’s not really about the money but about having the time to do what you really want in life.
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