Standing in the middle of the bar, throwing out my vibe, I glance over at one of the tables to see a sultry sexy woman staring back. It’s Sexy English Teacher. I’ve recently been seeing her around the neighborhood. We’ve been flirting each time we bump into each other but the encounters are not usually long enough to escalate things. Also, she is usually with another guy. The same is true for this night. There is another guy sitting with her.
While telling a story to another group of female friends I feel a hand slide over the back of my shoulders and down the side of my back. I turn my head to see English Teacher walking back to her table while glaring at me. I turn back to my group to resume conversation but it quickly tangents into a more scandalous thread.
“Oh my god. That girl was totally flirting with you! Do you know her?” says Carrie
“Yea, she’s been flirting with me a lot lately, but she is always with some dude.” I reply
“Wait a second, that’s your english teacher you’ve told us about. Oh my god, that is just wrong.”
“What’s wrong about it? Thats like my ultimate fantasy….to bang my English professor” I respond, “besides it’s not like she’s still my professor, I had her for class over three years ago.”
“I don’t care, it’s still not right.” exclaims Carrie
“Hmmmm, I think someone’s a little jealous” I say with a smirk
“You’re unbelievable. What can you possibly see in this girl?” Carrie asks
“Three things: smart, sexy, and fun. That’s a winning combination in my book.”
Carrie and I continue on with our debate. It occurs to me that Carrie and English Teacher must have had a little spat some time ago, which would explain her disapproval in my flirting with Sexy English Teacher. I’m not getting anywhere justifying myself so I change the topic.
At the end of the night, I’m standing by the door about to leave when I see Sexy English Teacher walking out with her guy friend. She approaches me and gives a surprising spank on my ass. I give her a glare and say, “That was bad,” then I return the gesture and give her a quick slap on the ass. She smirks and tells me that she’s leaving.
“Good night. I’ll see you around ok?” she says
“Yea we’ll have to do something sometime,” I say, “have a good night.”
I then grab her hand and give her a twirl, pull her in close to me and have her kiss my cheek. With that she smiles and leaves. Just as the last time her male friend didn’t look very pleased but oh well. Alls fair in love and war, right?
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Frankly, I’d like to bang sexy English teacher, too.
Nice.
Hmmm, maybe the three of us can get together sometime. Have you ever heard of dual induction massage
I’ve gotten addicted to your blog, but I have to say….
Give up on the scripted stuff and be yourself. I go nuts when I read comments from people like Latinkid. It’s occasions like with your Sexy English Teacher when you are yourself and spontaneous that will pay off in the long run.
When you started your “quest” a year ago you needed the scripts and structure to get you over your timid nature, but now that you are confident put all that aside and use your CONFIDENCE!! Any girl will tell you that a guy who walks in carrying himself well and exuding confidence will get the woman every time. NOT the player who is passing lines and peacocking to get attention.
Take it from someone that was lucky enough not to have to play the game, but I must say, I love reading about it.
Hi Dan,
Thanks for commenting. I agree that confidence is definitely a key trait to have in attracting women but am not too sure that this alone will yield the results I am looking for. For instance, I feel like I have a lot of confidence now when I interact with women but am still having some major problems in taking any of this confidence in the initial meeting to anything further, whether that be a second meeting or going back to my place.
I don’t rely too heavily on scripted material. I do have some stories of my own that I tend to use quite often. As far as structure, I think that there is a logical progression of attraction to seduction that occurs either naturally or unnaturally. I feel that understanding this basic flow is useful for anyone who is trying to attract someone. Just going in, exuding confidence, isn’t necessarily going to lead to getting the woman unless certain actions are taken along the way.
A good example would be approaching a woman and saying confidently, “Wanna fuck.” Chances are this will probably not work no matter how confident you are.
Perhaps you’d be willing to share your experiences on using confidence when meeting women. You sound like a natural and I’m always interested in the way that naturals meet and attract women.
Thanks for the feedback,
Matt
Girl slaps you in the ass.
YOU: “Hey! That ain’t for free. Now you owe me a drink next time you see me.”
Routines are training wheels. I compare them to sheet music. You’re following a structure, a progression. When you become proficient at that structure, when it is in your skin, then you are free to IMPROVISE. Then it is time for JAZZ.
It is only when you know the rules that you can break the rules.
The most common parallel in this game is stand-up comedy. Every night, those guys field-test their material in a new club–and they act like its the first time they’ve said it. Bill Cosby came up with 90 minutes of new material every year–and even veteran comics like Jerry Seinfeld are in awe over that colassal amount.
But it is scripted.
From that script, they can work in new material, talk on the fly. But what is essential…is LISTENING TO THE RESPONSE. CONNECTING to your audience. Not just parroting material.
You definitely have a stumbling block with closing—but it’s GREAT, because you’re now into a new level of the game. One step closer to getting everything you’ve ever wanted.
Keep going.
ps. ran into Style last night with the guys from that VH1 show. All great guys. You have to get to LA.
Smoothlatinkid,
Good analogy of why scripted stuff works. It reminds me of the post I wrote a few weeks ago, Routines of Pick Up Artists and Naturals. Basically, even the most charismatic and charming natural uses routines. The difference is that the natural learns it subconsciously through trial and error where as the pick up artist learns it consciously.
I’ve only been to LA once and I can definitely see why it is the place to be for a lot of PUAs. It reminds of that quote from Swingers,
“It’s like the opposite of inbreeding. The hottest one percent from around the world migrate to this gene pool.”
Who is Carrie? Sounds like she might be a little jealous. (Of course she’s going to turn out to be your sister or something…)
i love sex,even though i am old man…love 2 fuck whole world