Comments on: Clueless Night http://themodernsavage.com/2007/02/05/clueless-night/ the seductive life Thu, 09 Feb 2012 00:50:22 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Ana Renee Jones http://themodernsavage.com/2007/02/05/clueless-night/#comment-45 Ana Renee Jones Wed, 07 Feb 2007 07:08:00 +0000 http://themodernsavage.com/?p=46#comment-45 Matt,<br /><br />You may just have to smack her on the head with a blunt object and drag her back to your cave. Or you could just charm her pants off.<br /><br />Ana Matt,

You may just have to smack her on the head with a blunt object and drag her back to your cave. Or you could just charm her pants off.

Ana

]]> By: Matt Savage http://themodernsavage.com/2007/02/05/clueless-night/#comment-44 Matt Savage Tue, 06 Feb 2007 04:15:00 +0000 http://themodernsavage.com/?p=46#comment-44 Ana,<br /><br />I promise next time I see Robot Girl I'll snare her with my tractor beam. ..hope that didn't sound too nerdish:)<br /><br /><br />Smoothlatinkid,<br /><br />Solid advice as always. My response to the gay clueless guy was in a playful vibe, I think they picked up on it, but probably could've been reframed better as you said.<br /><br /><br />Blondie,<br /><br />Everyone could benefit from learning how to be more flirty. If only more people would flirt then the world would be a better place. So get out there, banter with the fellas and show off those sexy tattoos!<br /><br /><br />-Matt Ana,

I promise next time I see Robot Girl I’ll snare her with my tractor beam. ..hope that didn’t sound too nerdish:)

Smoothlatinkid,

Solid advice as always. My response to the gay clueless guy was in a playful vibe, I think they picked up on it, but probably could’ve been reframed better as you said.

Blondie,

Everyone could benefit from learning how to be more flirty. If only more people would flirt then the world would be a better place. So get out there, banter with the fellas and show off those sexy tattoos!

-Matt

]]> By: Blondie http://themodernsavage.com/2007/02/05/clueless-night/#comment-43 Blondie Tue, 06 Feb 2007 01:56:00 +0000 http://themodernsavage.com/?p=46#comment-43 Sheeeeit. Maybe I need to turn my "flirtiness" into somewhat of a study like you do....<br /><br />Maybe it'll make the pressure not so... pressure-like. Sheeeeit. Maybe I need to turn my “flirtiness” into somewhat of a study like you do….

Maybe it’ll make the pressure not so… pressure-like.

]]> By: smoothlatinkid http://themodernsavage.com/2007/02/05/clueless-night/#comment-42 smoothlatinkid Tue, 06 Feb 2007 01:25:00 +0000 http://themodernsavage.com/?p=46#comment-42 Alright, Matty. Good night. Couple things. <br /><br />--Great response to the rude chick, and great attitude after. You didn't let it sink you. Major props.<br /><br />--Your response to them calling you the gay guy from Clueless was slightly defensive, ie, reactionary, ie, non-alpha. Try these:<br /><br />"WOW...i know you think anyone this good-looking and stylish must be gay...but you'll have to find another way to get me off your mind. I'm straight."<br /><br />"Your attraction for me is so distracting that you up with gay to get your mind off me? That's so CUTE!" <br /><br />REFRAME their statement to make it like they want you. <br /><br />And you're right---you could've engineered the afterparty. Keep going. You'll get it. Alright, Matty. Good night. Couple things.

–Great response to the rude chick, and great attitude after. You didn’t let it sink you. Major props.

–Your response to them calling you the gay guy from Clueless was slightly defensive, ie, reactionary, ie, non-alpha. Try these:

“WOW…i know you think anyone this good-looking and stylish must be gay…but you’ll have to find another way to get me off your mind. I’m straight.”

“Your attraction for me is so distracting that you up with gay to get your mind off me? That’s so CUTE!”

REFRAME their statement to make it like they want you.

And you’re right—you could’ve engineered the afterparty. Keep going. You’ll get it.

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